When persons judge you and talk negatively about you because of your uniqueness, it’s important that you stay rooted in self-love so that you are unfazed by their comments or actions towards you.
In order to do this, you must first cultivate that self-love and a sense of pride to keep yourself grounded and nourished.
On this podcast episode, I share insights on exactly how to do this.
- Tapping into your divine essence
- Staying grounded and rooted in who you are
- Being truly un-F***withable
- Why not everyone will perceive you the way you prefer to be perceived
- Diversity spices things up
- Discover all aspects of self through spiritual growth
- Bringing the highest version of yourself to every interaction
- Taking time to do things that will help you become more self-actualized
- Be open to learning and growing
- Everyone is on a different journey
- Embrace everyone’s differences
- Fostering well-rounded experiences while honoring yourself
- Get in a space of self-discovery and self-exploration
- Supportive relationships
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I harmonize in order to survive, modeling instinct. I seal the store of life force with the galactic tone of integrity. I am guided by the power of universal water.
Welcome to episode 28 of the Cosmic Celebrity Podcast here at athenaleucine.com. On this episode, I’ll be talking to you about how to cultivate self-love and let it be that guiding force in your life that really preserves you and sustains you and keep you rooted and just nourished in the overall acceptance and, you know, approval of yourself and your own abilities.
So it’s like cultivating that sense of self-love so that when others don’t approve of you or whatever the situation, if others don’t get you, or if others are just outright mean to you or judge you negatively because of your abilities and because of your uniqueness, your unique weird – which is really supernatural – your weirdness, your supernaturalness … How to cultivate that sense of pride and self-love in yourself so that you’re unfazed.
And to let that essence, your divine essence, tapping into your divine essence and self-love, radiate self-love for yourself from inside out that’s going to really ground you and root you – keep you rooted in those times when times are just more challenging than you really care for them to be. You know, like when you have your quote unquote “hard times” when there’s like major transitions in your life – whether it’s divorce, whether it’s death of a loved one, whether it’s whatever life transition it is, a break up with a boyfriend, or you and a best friend that are no longer friends after being friends for decades or a really long time – you know, whatever it is that aches your heart or causes you to feel pain and discomfort, this episode is going to be touching on the steps to really cultivate that kind of radiating, authentic, pure self-love and let that be the guiding force in your life, right?
Let that guide you to a place of comfort, self-comfort, and just self-knowing and self-understanding that’s unshakeable…right?
Vishen from Mindvalley calls that being un … I don’t know if I’m going to say. I don’t know if I should say it, but un-F***withable, you know. He actually says the actual word. But how to be truly un-F***withable, like when you’re really grounded and rooted in the understanding of who you are. And even if you’re not really fully there, you know enough or you have enough confidence in yourself to just be like, “Listen, I’m going to be alone if I’m not going to be treated right,” or, “I’m not going to be around a group of people who don’t really celebrate me and that are not excited about me.” Right? “Because I could just be by myself and be excited about me, and celebrate me, and discover more and more to be excited about me.”
So that’s the mindset. That’s a spiritual mindset that’s really going to help you and assist you to maintain your emotional balance and your overall psychological health as you’re uncovering and learning more about your abilities and what it all looks like for you as you’re integrating it and managing it in your day-to-day life.
So, you’ll also receive intuitive energy healing that’s going to naturally realign you to your unique energetic spark, the unique spark of The Divine that you are – your unique essence that is a part of the whole. You’ll also receive intuitive downloads that may inspire you so that you can kind of like have a aha moment so that in the resonancy of the message or this episode something is going to be alive and be reawakened within you that’s going to really inspire you to do something really great for yourself or to create a certain shift so that you can stand in the truth of your own cosmic celebrity, which is you actually integrating more and more with the divine essence that is you, your soul essence, and really integrate that and truly live from your heart and truly live a carefree and wonderful life.
Allow your life to be blissful. Allow your life to be happy and stand in the truth of your purpose no matter freaking what., right? That’s what I call embodying or being the essence of your cosmic celebrity.
Because on the soul level, we’re all superstars. We all have wonderful intentions and wonderful purposes. We’re all in harmony with ourselves, and with each other, and all this other stuff as far as spiritually speaking in the non-physical realm. When we can incorporate that nicely, you know, in a really balanced and aligned way, in a way of true wholistic integration with our physical experience, that’s really beautiful. That’s a real beautiful expression of your cosmic celebrity.
Step 1: Understand That Not Everyone Will Accept You or Agree With You
So, step one in cultivating your self-love so that that can be your guiding force and your strength, you can be your own rock, you can be self-assured no matter what’s going on in your life – whatever transition, whatever … you know, even if you are having happy times in your life, really understanding how to have even happier times, like really how to allow your life to get better and better. So, the first step is to understand that, number one, everybody’s not going to get you, or accept you, or approve of you, or want to know you, or agree with you, or perceive you in the way that you would want to be perceived.
Like, let’s be honest. We all want for everybody to love us and perceive us as just like these wonderful darlings, right? But let me give you a reality check. At least with the physical here on the third-dimensional construct, everybody got different agendas. Everybody got different destinies. Everybody has different life purposes. So there’s no way that everybody’s going to see you the way that you would prefer to be seen, because there’d be no contrast. There’d be no sense of, you know, one learning from the other. There’d be no sense of challenges and interesting twists and things like that, right? Because at the end of the day, that kind of spiced things up.
Diversity and differences spice things up in a way that kind of guarantees that we’re all learning from each other. You know, we’re all learning from each other. We’re all each other’s teachers and so on and so forth.
Really cultivating and understand that … just accept that everybody’s not going to love you, not going to understand you, not going to, you know, even care to figure you out or even understand what your unique requirements are as a gifted person.
And it’s for you, it’s for you to have that interest in yourself through self-love to say, “You know what? I’m going to really get intimate with me, and I’m going to discover all aspects of myself on the deeper profound levels and layers through spiritual growth, through doing the inner work.”
And when I say inner work, I mean really being present with your life and reflective on … like, very introspective about, you know, the things that happened in your life and the things about you that are unique to you – like your personality or the way you perceive life.
Be very clear on that, and give yourself a lot of attention and love yourself, and truly just be the best person that you can be and do the best to always bring the highest version of yourself in every interaction no matter what.
So, definitely this … the first step is to just go in with a mindset that, listen, everybody’s not going to like me. Everybody’s not going to get me. Not everyone’s going to be intrigued by me or think that my gifts are so awesome. And you may have some struggles yourself around your gifts and how you’re perceiving them. And are you truly perceiving them in a really aligned, high vibrational way that’s really going to allow you to receive them as the blessings that they are? You know, the blessings and sacred gifts that they are?
Step 2: Commit to Personal Development & Growth
So, step two is to definitely also really take time for your own personal growth and development. And what I mean by that is take the time to do things that is going to enhance and develop you in the areas that you know are not your strong points, your strong suits.
So, do things that is always going to add to you. Take courses or read books that’s going to help you become more self-actualized; that’s going to help you to process life, and people, and the world; that’s going to influence your perspective of those elements of life in a really wholistic, positive, expanded way – books and personal development aspects or avenues that’s going to really encourage you to just be a more mature person, be a more well-rounded person.
The more you do that, the more you’ll get to really understand that you have – other than your spiritual gifts – you really are a wonderful person, and you really do deserve self-love, and you really do deserve to be loved by others.
But from that place – that place of self-actualization, just kind of being well-rounded – from there, you’ll find that you’ll become more healthier in your psychology. You’ll find that you’ll become more overall confident in yourself. And you’ll also find that you start taking a certain pride, a certain level of pride in yourself – so how you carry yourself, how you speak, how you demonstrate courtesy, how you handle and manage your life.
So, definitely number two is commit to personally developing yourself, and always be open to learning, and growing, and allowing other persons to share their perspectives with you because they may share something with you that never occurred to you that’s actually going to shift the perspective that you may have had. So definitely always be committed to that personal growth, that personal development, that forward movement, that soul evolution, just to be a more expanded version of all that you have the potential to be and become.
Step 3: Understand That Everyone is on a Different Journey
The third step in embracing and cultivating self-love as a guiding force in your life is really to understand that everyone else is on a different journey – in the sense of different purposes and destinies in their lives, including you. So you as a spiritually gifted person, you’re on a specific journey just like everyone else. However, everyone is at a different place in the journey as well as levels of their consciousness, or just things that are meaningful to them in attaining, and achieving, and working towards in their life.
So really embrace everyone’s differences. And embrace the fact that you get to be spiritually gifted and cultivate your abilities, and nurture and develop them, and embrace them, and be proud of who you are, and you get to choose the persons that you’re going to be around – are they like-minded?
And it doesn’t necessarily mean cutting other people off just because they’re not spiritually gifted or … It just means like kind of compartmentalizing your social categories. So you have your inner inner circle, where those consist of your spouses, or your children, or your very, very close best, best friends. Then, you have your social circles, you know, and sometimes a social circle could simply be like maybe you’re in a book club with some other persons and you all enjoy reading books, obviously. So that’s that common ground.
And you may not necessarily need to share things about your gifts and other personal things about other aspects of your life, but you could still enjoy that other person’s company. And then you can still foster a real well-rounded experience just from the understanding of various different social circles and levels of interactions with different persons while honoring yourself and really allowing yourself to enjoy yourself and to really have a happy, well-rounded life.
This is self-love. This is based on self-love and you knowing that you deserve to really have a happy, effortless, easygoing life, and to be supported, and loved, and to be respected. You make that choice. You make that choice about what kind of quality persons you’re going to be around, what types of environments you’re going to surround yourself in based on your self-love, and how you’re going to perceive your life, and how you’re going to perceive everything and everyone that is interacting with you in your reality.
Self-Love is the key to Emotional Freedom & Peace of Mind
So, those are three steps to cultivate self-love and allow that energy of love, that self-love, to be that guiding force in your life that helps you to make quality, healthy, good decisions…but, you got to be serious about it. And you have to really get in a space where you are in this self-discovery, self-exploration … you know, like … like the sense of getting intimate with yourself, and just wanting to spend time, and just have more quiet moments, and just wanting to honor yourself in every way, in everything that you do, in how you speak, and just every way as you demonstrate and show up in various different aspects of yourself based on what’s appropriate for the environment and the social setting.
I would definitely say self-love is a journey, and it’s a never-ending journey. And it’s most definitely vital for you as a spiritually gifted person to really embrace self-love. You can’t really embrace the other aspects of you or all aspects of you without self-love. Self-love is like that special key that’s going to help you to unlock that kind of flow of emotional freedom, peace of mind, and just overall well-being.
So definitely think about ways that you can cultivate more self-love that’s more honor, more self-honor for yourself. And just really start making good decisions for yourself and start being around people who are healthy and supportive of you that is going to encourage you and uplift you. And be okay with, you know, keeping the circle small until time goes by. And over time, you magnetize more of those supporting persons in your life that’s going to really be complementary to your own self-love that you have established and been continually evolving within yourself.
Join a Like-Minded Community
So, if you are looking for more ways that you can really foster a community of like-minded persons, persons who are specifically other also spiritually gifted and looking in the community to build a community or be a part of a community that is all about being healthy and whole, not just emotionally but psychologically, as they grow and nurture their abilities, understand their abilities more, and integrate that into their day-to-day life, I have created a wonderful program where such type of activities are facilitated in a supportive group nurturing atmosphere for persons to really share their experiences, and to learn, and to grow, and to cultivate and build from a place of self-love that really extends to other persons who are also seeking the same thing, the same type of understanding, and spiritual growth, and emotional balance in their lives and in the management of their abilities.
I’ve created a program named Blossoming The Inner Spirit, and it’s a wonderful program that is going to really truly assist you in understanding everything from the basics of spirituality and really nurturing and embracing your gifts.
On top of that, it’s a self-paced course where you can go through the modules on your own time after work, or before work, or whenever else is suited for you. And there is a live weekly coaching feature where you would get coached by me, and you’ll also have an opportunity to interact with other persons who are also at a very similar place in the journey as you who also have questions and who also will be sharing their experiences that will also nourish you, and your questions and where you are in your journey will also nourish them. It’s mutually beneficial and reciprocating in the sense of the growth.
If you go to blossomingtheinnerspirit.com, you can go there now. You can get more information and register so that you can start to be a part of this amazing community and really start expanding your consciousness and really learning how to integrate and apply spirituality into your life, how to become more awakened, more alive, and more present in your life so that you can start experiencing more joy, more fulfillment, more self-love, more peace of mind, and just kind of like that sense of self-understanding, and a sense of pride, and a sense of worthiness, and a sense of that you really are creating whatever it is that you want in your life. It’s really possible for you to create that for yourself and to also be in the knowing that you deserve that.
So gain, that is blossomingtheinnerspirit.com. Go there now. Check it out and get registered. Then, you can get in and be a part of the community and share your energy in that way and also receive the support that you need personally from me weekly in our weekly live coaching group sessions and just a continual community forum that you’re going to always be supported in. So, once again, that is blossomingtheinnerspirit.com.
Again, this is a Athena Lucene, and this is my absolute joy to support you on your growth, your journey of transformation and spiritual elevation as you expand your consciousness back to the universal oneness.
If there’s anyone that you feel that can benefit from this episode, as always, share it in the spirit of love. Make your comments. Let me know your aha moments. Let me know what you think.
If there was a particular point in this episode that really resonated with you, that really inspired you to a aha moment, go ahead and share your comments. I look forward to receiving them and, of course, responding.
Again, this is Athena Lucene, and I came to this earth planetary construct as a galactic beacon of expanded love and light consciousness here to support you on your spiritual journey and growth back to the collective oneness.
That’s it for now. Abundant blessings and blissful moments.