On this episode I explain what it means to embrace your humanity in order to transform into the FULL expression of the Divine Being that you are meant to be. I discuss why it’s important for you to have the willingness to be the observer and see the areas within yourself that are not in alignment with the nature of The Creator, and improve those areas.
It’s important that you have the courage to see truth in your life and the aspects of you that are self-sabotaging and causing you to experience emotional confusion. It’s time for you to integrate those human emotions with the higher aspect of self and allow the beauty of your light to shine.
- Strengthening your emotional body
- Recognizing patterns in your life
- Overcoming toxicity in your relationships
- Being whole within yourself
- Allowing your reality to reflect your inner harmony
- What happens if you continue to live life from a place of unawareness
- The importance of getting into an agreement with how The Creator sees you and your life
- Remaining committed to your own personal evolution
- Preventing yourself from falling into emotional bondage
- The importance of sitting in the seat of the observer
- What to do when you unintentionally hurt others around you
- Shifting self-sabotaging behavior patterns
- The Martyr Complex and your resistance to receiving love
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Welcome to episode eight of the Cosmic Celebrity Podcast, here at AthenaLucene.com. On this episode, I’ll be sharing with you how to embrace and integrate your humanity with your spiritual gifts. I’ll also be sharing with you divine downloads, and energy healing that will naturally realign you to the frequency of your unique energy imprint, or soul essence, that is having a life experience as a spark of The Divine Creator, and Cosmic Celebrity.
As a spiritual gifted being, you are full of love and light consciousness. Through this love and light consciousness, you’re always looking to improve, to grow, to evolve, to show up in a greater, more expanded version of yourself. With this comes an additional added pressure of always feeling extra disappointment in yourself, whenever you fall short of the glory, right?
If you have mistakes that you have made in the past, if you have manifested things in your life that are unwanted through your unawareness, or through some type of emotional feedback loop, that causes some kind of self-sabotaging behavior…or some type of resistance to the more expanded reality that you’re meant to have, and the more expanded version of yourself that you’re meant to have, you feel this intense disappointment within yourself, right?
Because, you know that you’re beautifully, spiritually gifted person that’s full of really expanded love and light consciousness. Through your knowing — your intuitive knowing of this — you’re always wanting to show up in a way with your light expanded and radiating love, and light, and peaceful, joyful, higher mind, creator, high vibrational frequencies of love, and joy, and happiness, and harmony, and generosity, and all those positive emotions and associations with The Creator; the natural being and state of the creator.
Fully Embrace Your Humanity
So whenever you make a mistake in your life, or whenever you’re experiencing something in your life that is not wanted, you tend to be extra hard on yourself. This is perfectly normal in the sense that because you’re always looking to show up, and it means so much to you to show up in a really whole and higher version of yourself, when you fall, or you miss the glory of this, you unintentionally start beating yourself up unnecessarily. Because, in you…this light and love that’s within you is always looking to radiate, and is always looking to add value, and add to, and just be a blessing to others.
But, through this desire to always be a blessing to others, it’s like you forget that you’re also human, and you’re also having a physical life experience. And so, what that means is, in order to grow and evolve, and to have less emotional affliction than…for lack of a better word, or confusion around why is it that even though you’re intending to show up in just a really full, well rounded way, that sometimes you fall short of the glory?
That may look like not having the wholesome, healthy relationships that you desire. It may show up as misunderstandings — persons misunderstanding you, or you having just undesired results in different areas of your life. The reason for this is because you’re not fully realizing and embracing your humanity.
You’re a human being with spiritual gifts. And so, what that means is, there’s a part of you, there’s a humanity within you, that you are here to grow and improve through your personal, spiritual journey. You’re meant to improve that area of your life, that blockage, or that emotional feedback loop…Either that stemmed from childhood, or some other traumatic, or disappointing experience, where the energy got blocked within you, and it created kind of like this emotional feedback loop, or resistance to the very things that you say that you want.
And so, you’re here two folds. You’re here to, number one, embrace your humanity. All aspects of it. And, do the spiritual work, do the … Through spiritual growth, the spiritual process, through conscious presence and awareness, to address these emotional feedback loops to strengthen your emotional body so that you can then number two, show up to others. Show up for yourself in your own life, number one, by being your own greatest blessing in your own life, and as well as a blessing to others as you become more whole within yourself. More integrated, more balanced.
A lot of times, you know, spiritually gifted persons…it’s like you forget that there’s a process. There’s a spiritual growth process that is needing to take place within you first, through your commitment to your spiritual growth, through your commitment to wanting and desiring to be just a whole individual that you’re meant to be. And from that place, really step powerfully in your purpose as a spiritually gifted person who is able to recognize a need with others to share your gifts, and in that way be a blessing to them.
Sit In The Observer Seat
So, I would say be gentle with yourself. If you’re experiencing relationships that are not healthy, relationships where the signals get crossed a lot, or misunderstandings and toxicity in your relationships, I would say to you: sit in the observer seat, you know?
Really get present with yourself and others around you, because often times the persons who are in the closest intimate relationships with you…often times these persons mirror to you your projections, or your inner vibrational frequencies and discords. Your congruences and your inner incongruencies.
So, sit in the observer seat and pay attention, and recognize what patterns show up for you in your relationships. Recognize the areas in your life that you are satisfied with, and that are pleasing to you. Then also, the areas in your life that is not so pleasing to you.
Then from there, through spiritual growth, through spirituality, you can take the necessary steps so that you can do the inner work to align the areas that are reflecting to you a need for improvement towards a more desired, satisfying, pleasurable result. So that could mean healthier relationships; that could be more money, an abundance flow of money; that could be you standing in your purpose, feeling more times than not the higher vibrational frequencies of love, and happiness, and joy, and just overall satisfaction with your life.
The key is to embrace your humanity with your spiritual gifts, so that you can be a whole person. Be whole within yourself, so that you’re able to be, become. Grow into the person that you were created to be, right? A divine being that is whole, that is balanced, that is in harmony within, from within. Allow your reality to reflect that inner harmony to you.
It’s interesting because you’re not meant to be perfect. Your spiritual gifts don’t make you perfect. Your spiritual gifts just simply means that this is the area that you are talented at. So this is an area that you don’t need to necessarily work so hard at being good at it. Like, you have a naturality about it. Like, you have natural intuitive knowing.
You have natural sixth sense then — a natural sixth sense, so to speak. It comes easily for you. This effortlessness that it comes to you in makes it effortless for you. So, it’s like your zone of genius.
If you don’t embrace your humanity, or if you continue to live life from a place of unawareness, you will have repeated patterns manifest in your life. Whether it’s in your relationships, whether it’s in the various flows of abundances in your life. It basically, it’s like your soul loves you enough to want to show you the things in your life and the areas in your life that are not in harmony with The Creator, or with how The Creator sees you.
Remember, The Creator sees you as just a loving, beautiful, creation that is an extension of its consciousness. And so, The Creator doesn’t see you through the lens of negative human emotion. The Creator sees you as just full of potential, just completely optimistic about the things that through your natural giftedness, the uniqueness that you bring. The Creator is always supporting you and co-creating with you so that you can, through this connection, really embrace the fullness, the totality of your existence, including your humanity.
Embracing your humanity does not make you a bad person. It does not make you less than. It’s just an aspect of yourself that, often times, doesn’t come naturally for you to integrate with your spiritual giftedness. A lot of times the focus is, often times, on how to even nurture and develop your spiritual giftedness…or what is your spiritual giftedness about.
Get In Agreement With The Creator
For you to fully experience your spiritual giftedness, and the fullness of it, the way that you’re meant to, you’ve got to work through spiritual growth; through the things, or through the disharmony, within you — the parts within you that, through your life experience, has caused you to see that area or that aspect of life in a way that is not congruent with how The Divine, or The Creator, sees you or that area, right?
The Creator sees everything as expanding and beautifully unfolding. So that means the planet; that means the universe; that means everything. You, your life, others. The Creator just sees everything as perfection.
If you can get in agreement with how The Creator sees you and sees your life, then that simply means that you will better, more effortlessly, be able to be loving and forgiving with yourself, and never give up on your spiritual growth. You will remain committed to your spiritual growth; you will remain committed to your own personal evolution, and where you become a better and better person.
So because The Creator is always looking to improve and evolve — and that’s the nature of the creator — and so, because you are a spark of The Divine through your soul essence, it’s also your nature to always be improving, and evolving, and growing, and showing up as a bigger and better version of yourself. In doing this, it’s vital that you be loving and supportive of yourself.
A lot of times when things happen, or when life experiences happen, others may judge you, or may not understand you, or may… through their own perceptions…see you in a less than favorable way.
This is particularly important that you support yourself through your life experiences, and through embracing your humanity, because if you are not centered in your connection with your soul, and through that connection with The Creator, you will very, very easily fall into a downward spiral — emotional bondage where you’re being hard on yourself.
You’re beating yourself up, and you are not allowing the flow of love and light consciousness of The Divine to flow through you, to support you…because, you then become blocked because of negative emotions.
Through spiritual growth, you’re better able to — even though when you make mistakes, even though when there are things that happen that are less than preferred or that is not something that you are desiring, or intending to happen — still supports yourself; still love yourself; still get in agreement with The Creator that, you know what, you deserve unconditional love. And there’s nothing that you need to do to earn love. There’s nothing you need to do to earn the validation of The Creator, or the approval of The Creator. You have it, simply because you exist. Simply because you exist.
The time it takes for you to get in the realization and the remembrance of that, after something that is disappointing happened, the sooner you’re able to basically raise your vibrations, and be able to see yourself from the energy, or from the higher frequency of joy, and passion, and unconditional love, and harmony, and peace, and well-being, and carefree-ness. Just all those light emotions that inspire, and invigorate you to go forward, and keep going, and evolving, and growing, and still keep your inner shine about you, right?
So Integrate your humanity. Be gentle with yourself. Be present in your life. Be observant.
Be Aware of Your Self-Sabotaging Aspects
Listen, if persons share feedback with you and there is something that you are not agreeing about their feedback, just sit with it.
Sit with it, ponder on it, think about it, because obviously what you’re not aware of you’re not aware of.
Often times, as a spiritually gifted person, you are very good at being aware and picking up, through your sixth sense, the emotional feedback loops of others; places where other persons may be blocked, and places where other persons may be stagnating, or self-sabotaging. That might be very evident to you. But, a lot of times it’s difficult to see your own blocks; to see the areas with yourself, within you that are incongruent with the nature of The Creator.
Part of spiritual growth is the willingness to see truth, to see the truth in your life; the aspects of yourself that, if you improve them, you evolve and grow. And then, making that choice to do the inner work, so that you can grow, so that you can evolve.
That is a part of the spiritual process, and the spiritual growth evolution.
The more you’re willing to do this, the more you’re able to be gentle, compassionate, and loving with others. Because, then you’re easily able to do it with yourself. So, your humanity and integrating it with your spiritual gifts is very important.
Pay attention to the reoccurring themes in your life. Pay attention to how your money shows up to you. Pay attention to your relationships, what others mirror to you. Pay attention to the synchronicities in your life, and pay attention to the things that you are needing to know so that you can grow.
Be willing, be open.
Open your consciousness so that you can evolve. Open your consciousness so that you can work and transform your life.
Transform spiritually into the divine being that you’re meant to be…like the full expression of the divine being that you’re meant to be.
This is only obtained when you integrate your humanity and your spiritual gifts. Because, what good is it if you do so much good, and you have so many good qualities about you, and others appreciate you, but then you turn around and sabotage it, right? Because of your own stuff, right? Your own emotional feedback loop; the areas within you that is not aligned with the nature of The Creator.
This happens through having a life experience. If the disappointments, or if certain traumas — particularly in childhood — if it’s not addressed; meaning, if the energy isn’t healed around it. In other words, if the neurons within your brain, if they’re not firing or triggering in a healthy way, in a pathway that creates healthy, wholesome results or behavior, it needs to be healed. That may look different for each person, because no individual has the exact same life blueprint or experiences as anyone else.
Everyone’s brain and neuro pathways are unique to them. So, it’s about this inner self exploration, and reflection that requires courage.
It takes courage to see yourself in a way that is less than preferred, you know? It’s easy to look at the good side, and the good qualities within us, and the areas that work for us. It takes tremendous courage to look at the areas of our life that does not work; the qualities in our character that needs to be improved.
It takes courage to look at bad behavior and shift it. Do the work to shift it, and ask the spiritual investigative questions about, “Why am I exhibiting this behavior pattern?”
The Martyr Complex
Often times, spiritually gifted persons have what is called the Martyr Syndrome, and it’s a form of resistance to receiving love. It’s kind of like an energy block that shows up in the form of resistance to giving and receiving love, because somewhere there may have been some emotional trauma that occurred, more than likely, in childhood.
And so, it’s very common for spiritually gifted persons to live out an energy pattern of the martyr. What that means is, that person literally self-sabotages themselves from giving and receiving love, like in a very consistent, high vibrational, ebb and flow.
This is not something that’s purposefully done; this is something that is done from a emotional feedback loop, based on trauma, or some type of less than preferred life experience as a child. Like, maybe if a child wasn’t nurtured — if you weren’t nurtured a certain way to a certain quality, if you didn’t get the message of unconditional love, either through school, or church, or through some other social programming, you got the message that you need to earn love, right? You’re just not unconditionally loved no matter what, just because you exist.
That’s not the program that society offers, and often times even parents unintentionally offer this vibration of, in order to have my love, you need to earn it, right? You need to have good grades, you need to be well behaved, you need to be perfect, you need to do as I say, instantly as I say it, and these types of behaviors.
Of course it’s not purposefully done, but these types of behaviors create an energetic block, or emotional feedback loop where a lot of times you may resist the very thing that you want so badly. You may sabotage positive interaction, or positive relationship, or something just really loving. A loving behavior, a gesture that you offered you end up turning around and then hurting the person inadvertently through your own emotional feedback loop, because then you go in fear mode, right?
Like, “Oh my goodness, I really want to love, and receive love…and…oh my goodness. But, there’s a resistance within me, through fear. Maybe because I was hurt somewhere in my childhood, or in my life, or repeatedly hurt.”
So now there is this fear of actually being love and giving love.
The work is through spiritual growth. First, recognize that there is a pattern that needs to be shifted, that needs to be unblocked, so that better behavior or more desired behavior, more wholesome, healthy behavior in relationships can be fostered. Going back to self-love, going back to getting in the center of your universe. Literally, remembering, and realizing the natural state of The Creator, and how The Creator feels about you.
And from this inner work, allowing yourself to receive the intuitive divine downloads on how you can love and express self-love better, and self-care. From this, your entire expanded, or extended reality can then mirror back to you wholesome, healthy relationships more consistently. Your abundance of every kind. Money will flow to you, which money is just another form of abundance just like peace, or joy, or happiness. It’s just something that you’re naturally meant to have, because you’re an abundant being, because The Creator is abundant.
The more you commit to your inner growth through spiritual growth, through spirituality, through the incorporation of your humanity and your spiritual gifts, essentially, your inner light will get brighter.
The more you heal, the more you shift, the more you commit to your spiritual growth and your spiritual journey, and your spiritual process, and you’re unfolding, and your soul evolution, the brighter your light will shine.
Make Time For Inner Reflection
And so, my challenge to you is to have the courage to take a look and see truth in your life, right? What aspects of you are creating sabotage, right? Where are you sabotaging yourself in your life? Where are you not willing to look and see your humanity? Where are you not willing to grow? Where are you not willing to receive love? Where are you not willing to give love, and allow it to be a consistent ebb and flow, right? When are you willing to stop the destructive pattern of taking two steps forward, and then 10 steps backward…and then get in this dance with yourself, right?
So, it’s like it’s about having the courage to tell the truth. And through your spiritual abilities, use your spiritual abilities as spiritual tools to assist you in feeling the love and the light consciousness, and allow that love and light to support you, right? It doesn’t make you bad, it doesn’t make you wrong when you do inner reflection and tell the truth. Tell the absolute truth about all aspects of yourself, your character, your life, right?
And then, lovingly allow yourself to be supported so that you can make the changes that are necessary; so that you can start really living, and allowing your spiritual giftedness and the beauty of your light to shine, and shine consistently, right?
So if you’re experiencing yourself where you’re unintentionally hurting others around you, or if you’re experiencing…you know…like you seem to feel stuck. If you feel stuck in your life, if you feel stuck in integrating your abilities, your spiritual abilities with your humanity. If you’re feeling as if you can’t quite seem to get unstuck and go forward. If it feels as if you can’t even explain the problem, but you can sense intuitively that something is off, something is not aligned, and you’re needing the guidance, and you’re wanting support. By all means, you can contact me.
If you go to WorkWithAthena.com, you can go there, and go ahead and complete the questionnaire just to the best of your ability about where you feel you’re stuck, or where you’re feeling that you’re needing support. Go ahead and complete that questionnaire, submit it, and I’ve opened up some space on my calendar where we can get on my personal online meeting, and we can have a free clarity session. Because, it’s important to me for you to get this, and get unstuck, right?
If you don’t do this work, and if you don’t get clear on your emotional feedback loops and how to strengthen your emotional body, your spiritual gifts will seem like a curse to you, when it’s meant to be a blessing, right?
When you nurture, develop, and integrate your spiritual gifts with your humanity in all aspects of yourself, only then will it become the light, the true blessing that it’s meant to be, right?
So, go ahead and go to WorkWithAthena.com, and complete the questionnaire.
From there, I will review the assessment form, you will have access to my calendar, and we can go ahead and we can have a clarity session so that you can begin the process to getting unstuck, and start actually seeing how your spiritual gifts become evidence that your spiritual gifts are blessings in your life. And then your life can become more congruent, because you start becoming more congruent.
So this is my absolute pleasure and joy to support you on your spiritual journey. My name is Athena Lucene, and I came to this earth planetary construct as a galactic beacon of expanded love and light consciousness. Here to support you on your spiritual growth and realization, and remembrance back to the universal oneness.
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Again, this is my absolute joy and pleasure in supporting you. If you feel that there’s someone else that can benefit from this episode, please feel free to share it in the spirit of love. It’s my absolute joy to support you. I look forward to hearing your feedback, and responding to your comments, or feedback. That’s it for now.
Abundant blessings, and blissful moments.