On this episode I talk about creating a paradigm shift from emotional pain and discomfort to soul nourishment and bliss.
Life is a journey full of various experiences. Every experience serves a purpose and assists in your self-discovery process. It’s up to you to love, trust, and allow yourself to hold the frequency of a new wholesome paradigm so you can experience a life that is more aligned and satisfying.
- The journey back to remembrance
- The purpose of experiencing relationships that are less than fulfilling
- Conscious elevation
- Your willingness to shift
- Becoming aware of the areas in your life that are causing suffering
- The meaning of life
- Allowing others to vibrate in and out of your life
- Embrace your self-discovery process
- The transition between paradigms
- The universe is responding to your energetic signals
- Redefining your inner circle
- Magnetizing people in your reality that do not judge or shame you
- Being deliberate about your new healthy, wholesome, and nourishing paradigm
- Viewing yourself in a more positive way
- Allowing yourself to receive love and healthy relationships
- Holding the newly defined frequency
- Knowing, speaking, and living your truth
- Being gentle, compassionate, and loving to yourself
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I harmonize in order to survive, modeling instinct. I seal the store of life force with a galactic tone of integrity. I’m guided by the power of universal water.
Welcome to episode 20 of the Cosmic Celebrity Podcast here at athenalucene.com. On this episode, I’ll be talking to you about the art of changing or shifting your old paradigm of emotional pain and discomfort to a new soul-nourishing and satisfying new beginning. You’ll also receive intuitive energy healing and downloads that will naturally realign your remembrance to your unique energy, your unique energetic imprint, which is your soul essence.
When you have integrated this more harmoniously as you’re having a physical life experience here on the third dimensional construct or the earth planetary construct, that’s what I call embodying your cosmic celebrity.
So, here we go, let’s get right into it.
Life is a Process
When you are aware … Life is a process and you’re always evolving, and always growing, and always becoming more aware of the spiritual insights and the clarity about your sixth sense abilities and the information and the downloads that you receive on a day to day basis based on the life activities and the type of relationships that you’re engaged with – right? Different insight is always coming to you – right? Spirit is always speaking to you – right?
Source energy is always given you information, you know, and then your soul – your higher self – is always guiding you as well because your soul knows all the things that you’re meant to have, and be, and to do and experience in this lifetime. And so, there are universal, supernatural life forces that are always with you, always aiding you, always guiding you towards your divine truth, your purpose – right? The very reason you came here.
And so, through your experimentating of life or experiencing of life, there’s various activities that can unfold. It’s kind of like a perfecting journey back to remembrance. Back to remembrance about spiritual truth, back to remembrance about your wholeness, your oneness with source energy and all that is.
And often times in your physical life experiences and the journey of remembrance, there’s going to be relationships that you may magnetize or attract to you that is less than fulfilling – relationships where others behave either unkind, unloving to you, or some other various form of non-preferred behavior. And the purpose of those types of experiences and interaction is to give you information about the paradigm you’re living; so your reality, your universe, your life.
If there’s an area or areas in your life that you are not experiencing deep satisfaction, you know, the invitation is always there – through spiritual growth – for you to make the changes, become more aware, become more awakened to your truth. Remembering your truth, your divine truth, your essence, the very essence that is always leading you and guiding you back to wholeness, oneness.
And so, once you’ve grown to a level of spiritual growth and conscious elevation, you’ll start seeing the dots connect. You start remembering more – an expanded version of your life and the universe and others. The things that have unfolded in your life, they start having more juicy, meaningful purpose and awareness for you.
When you get to a certain place in life where you’ve had enough, or enough dissatisfying experiences where you now realize that, “Wait a minute, my life isn’t working in … The aspect of my life isn’t working in various areas of my life. It’s just not working for me.” Whether it’s love, whether it’s, you know, other challenges with various relationships; financial challenges or challenges with achieving a goal, or working towards a goal, or just any other health discomforts or any other experiences that you’ve manifested in your life that are not pleasing to you.
Through spiritual growth, you get to a place where you’re like, “You know what? I’m really ready to make the changes that I need to make because my life isn’t working for me. I don’t feel satisfied.” There’s a lack of fulfillment – right? And there’s something within you that knows that you’re meant to feel satisfied and fulfilled. That’s the inner spirit within you that is of the nature of source energy, that is all of the nature of The Creator.
Your Willingness to Shift
As you start shifting through your awareness, you now start to want something more. You start desiring deeper, more soul-connected friendships and relationships, other kinds of relationships, love, just more wealth consciousness where you are willing to do things differently so that all areas of your life can be aligned and truly satisfying where you’re not freaked out or scared at the reality that’s been manifested in your life.
Through your spiritual growth, when you start to become aware of the areas that are causing suffering in your life, and then your willingness to shift that and change that into a beautiful new beginning, you know that within itself can be pretty scary.
But through spiritual growth, you start to understand that this is the very meaning of life. This is the changes and transition, the dynamic, the evolving, the growing – right? The perfecting – you know? This is what you realize – in the application of making these various shifts – this is what you realize is truly meaningful for your soul – right? Is recalibrating, you know – constantly making the changes for improvement. And as you shift from the old paradigm, you may lose friends or you may “seem” to be losing friends. You may seem to be losing it all so that you can gain a better, more satisfying new beginning or new reality.
But the idea is, you’re never alone. And it’s okay to allow the persons who are not meant to be in your life or no longer aligned in your life, it’s okay for you to allow them to vibrate out your life and just to have faith and to hold the focus, and be deliberate in your intentions and your energy flow that these persons are vibrating out of your reality – not because something is wrong with you, not because something is wrong with them, but because now you are asking for a new paradigm.
You are asking the universe for a beautiful new beginning that’s full of persons who love you and support you and get you and your sixth sense abilities. And, persons who can truly rendezvous on a truly more satisfying, higher vibrational frequency where you’re able to dissolve a lot of the pain and suffering of a lot of the lower emotional vibrations.
Embracing Your Self-Discovery Process
Now you’re able to receive love, and joy, and passion and all these expressions of these higher vibrational emotions – right? Because you’ve gotten to a point where you’ve made a decision that you’re going to feel good no matter what; that you’re going to accept yourself no matter what, that you’re going to accept your abilities – you’re going to nurture them, you’re going to be honoring of you, you’re going to embrace your self-discovery process.
That’s all that life ever calls us to do, even at any given stage, because there’s always more to discover about yourself. There’s always more to nurture about your abilities. There’s always something that you can personally develop so that you can become a more integrated, emotionally balanced and whole person.
So, it’s okay if you notice that, you know, certain persons are vibrating out your reality. It may be a friend that you used to be very close to and spoke to on a regular basis, but maybe, you know what? You don’t get the vibes to call that person anymore and maybe they’re not calling you anymore.
I’m challenging you to be okay with that and recognize that when the transition between paradigms are occurring, it’s happening to support you. It’s not happening to punish you. It’s not happening because something is wrong with you. It’s not happening because things are getting worse in your life.
When you’re creating a new paradigm, a beautiful new beginning, it’s kind of like wiping the slate clean and it may feel like that. You may all of a sudden have more down time so that you can be present with their own thoughts, and your own emotions, and perspective and reflections on things.
It’s an opportunity for you to really get clarity about where you are vibrationally, emotionally and energetically so that from that place, you can now get clear on what kind of love relationship do you want; what kind of lover do you want? What are the characteristics of that lover?
You know, then you can see, are you meeting the match? Are you aligned with that vibration of those types of characteristics?
And same for friendships; what new friendships are you cultivating and inviting in your life that is truly going to bring you more fulfillment?
Your wealth consciousness; how can you open up more to receive more support financially so that you can have the life experiences that you’re so deserving to have, that you desire? The experiences, the events, just even to have financial security, more financial security.
Because the idea is, Source energy and The Creator and your soul – your higher self – is always calling you any evolving you and your life experience to more upleveling, more improvement in every area, because you’re meant to be fulfilling.
So, when you get in an intuitive flow, you’re able to bridge the gap. The circumstances, the people, the support, everything you need comes so that you can bridge the gap. So if you’re feeling that transitionary period, if you feel as if you’ve lost yourself trying to please everyone else but now that you’re focused on you and spending more quiet time with yourself as you’re guided to do by your inner spirit, do you feel that now you’ve lost everyone else now that you have found yourself or now that you’re starting to rediscover yourself and shifting your paradigm?
You may not have these types of languages to describe this process, and that’s okay because I’m here to offer you the languages. I’m here to offer you the awareness and the understanding about what is happening and how you’re experiencing your reality so that you can put it in a healthy frame of mind so that you can understand that everything is, there’s nothing wrong, all is well.
The universe is simply responding to your energetic signals that you’re putting out where you’re craving for more nourishing relationships, you’re craving for maybe that dream home of yours – an environment that is truly nourishing of you that, you know, you find a lot of peace and comfort in and that you can share with your friends, share with your children, share with whoever it is that is co-creating with you in that moment.
That’s okay. Be Okay with persons vibrating out of your reality. Be okay with that job that is draining you, that is leaving you feeling exhausted and feeling unappreciated. It’s okay to release that job, it’s okay to release the people, release the circumstances. Release that car that no longer suits you – right? And purchase a new car – one that is more aligned with you, one that you can actually depend on, right? That’s not going to break down on you all the time.
Whatever it is that paradigm is that you are shifting, know that it’s okay. Know that you’re not alone. Know that it’s okay to give the universe space. It’s okay to give yourself space so that the new reality can be created. And, it’s okay to step into your self-discovery and spend more time alone and nurture yourself and be passionate about you and rediscover you.
Redefining The Categories That People in Your Life Fall Into
And, as you do that more, you will start seeing that new person’s one by one will start vibrating into your reality to the point where now you have … Your inner circle is now redefined.
I’m here to tell you that family is anyone you can create with. Anyone that is like-minded enough, that supports you, that understands you, that is just truly okay with you having a different opinion than they do. Persons that show up with you or in your reality not to be codependent with you, but to be true to their own purpose and stand in their own truth and allow you respectfully to stand in your own truth without judging you, without shaming you, without making you wrong for feeling the way that you feel.
That’s okay. And, you’ll be pleasantly amazed and surprised when these persons start getting magnetized to you – how … maybe like just how fulfilled you feel with just two or three persons in your circle. You know and then understanding where everybody else stands. You know, learning where everything … everything has a place in your life and getting the clarity as to where everything goes.
Even with friends and social circles, you have your social circle, you have your friends, you have your inner circle, and then having the clarity about what category does everyone fall into? And understand that at any given time, that can change.
That can shift a little bit, that can change, but the idea is to be aware of your old paradigm and the creation of the new paradigm. Be very deliberate about the new paradigm, the new beginning and everything that’s a part of that new beginning that is truly meaningful for you.
Love yourself enough to honor that process. And believe me, it’s better to be alone than to be surrounded by people who don’t support you, who don’t love you, who don’t get your giftedness. It’s okay, let it go. It’s okay to let it go.
Practice Holding the Frequency of the New Paradigm You’re Creating
Start focusing on new, start taking care of you, start working out again, start taking more bubble baths. Start adoring yourself in the mirror. Start practicing more loving and comforting self-thoughts and thinking about yourself.
Shift up the way that you view yourself in a more positive way. Before you know it, you’ll start attracting all kinds of miracles, all kind of satisfying experiences and people into your life.
And, allow yourself to receive love. Allow yourself to receive the healthier, more harmonious relationships because receiving can be just as difficult as the asking process, and the manifestation process, because it’s scary. I always say it, and, you know, people kind of like look at me a little bit sideways when I say it’s really scary, initially especially, to receive … to receive and have the things that you’re asking for.
So, if you’re asking for true, deep, passionate … a true, deeply passionate, loving relationship with an amazing lover, or that brand new dream home, whatever it is, get ready to have it. Because when you open up to receive, it requires for you to already hold the frequency of that thing, of that expression.
And so, that frequency … because it hasn’t been practiced more than the frequency you are already practicing – that’s why you don’t have that new thing yet by the way – that’s why it’s harder to practice a new frequency if you haven’t been practicing it, right? And so, that’s why it’s harder to receive, because you have to stay in that newly defining frequency.
It’s okay to allow yourself to just get in the fun of it. Just get in the fun of it and just have fun, and start loving you, and start honoring you and start being more conscious of what you’re thinking about other people and what they’re thinking about you.
I promise you, once you can quiet all that out and just be very decisive that it’s okay if people don’t get you or don’t understand you or they don’t even understand your shift from the old paradigm to the new paradigm, a paradigm that now more supports and serves your growth more. As you release that old paradigm and dissolve that to embrace a new beginning, a new paradigm that is healthier for you, that is more wholesome, that is more nourishing to the divinity within you, your soul essence, that honors you, people won’t get that.
People will be truly confused and offended. The same people that used to hang out with, you don’t hang out with them anymore. People you used to feel inclined to call and you don’t call them anymore, and they don’t call you and it’s okay when they don’t call you.
It’s like you’re okay with that. That really freaks people out sometimes.
If you have family members that used to care about spending all this time with the “holidays” and all of a sudden you don’t really care to get together and be a part of the hypocrisy anymore because it’s the “holiday time,” people will truly be confused by that.
People will truly feel confused about your clarity, but don’t let them project their confusion upon you. You stay clear, you stay focused on the new beginning that you’re creating and don’t worry about the rest.
And when you can get to that place emotionally where you don’t care about what other people … how other people are perceiving your reality, how other people see you, how other people see all this other extra stuff, because everybody’s just walking around with a bunch of opinions anyway. You know what I mean? Choose the ones that support you, supports your growth, that serves your self-nourishment.
And be okay with being called selfish. It’s okay if somebody feels like you’re selfish, because at the end of the day you’re very clear that you’re not being selfish. You’re being selfless with the love that you have for yourself first.
And from there, you’re going to be so much more abundant and you’re going to be able to show up in your relationships and with other persons and interactions and in your experiences as the biggest, and highest, and greatest version of you, because you’ve taken the time to be fully clear on who you are, what your truth is, and, therefore, you begin to speak it and live it more effortlessly.
Trust Yourself and Embrace Your Own Clarity
So be okay that … Allow the process to be what it is for you, whatever that is, and have faith in you and trust you. You have to trust you. If you don’t trust you, you stay stuck in pain, fear, worry, anxiety, and suffering over what everybody else is thinking about you.
At the end of the day, it’s not like everybody else has all this clarity anyway. Everybody … Most people are just walking around all confused anyway, so why not have your own clarity and embrace your own clarity and be okay with everybody else in their confusion and whatever else – the incongruencies and contradictory vibrations that’s going on because they’re so busy about having opinions about you?
Obviously, they’re not putting that energy in improving themselves, you know, and aligning their frequency so that they can have the things that they want, and so that they can be more congruent in their lives.
So, just take it easy. Take it day by day. Get connected with you. Breathe more deeply, breathe through your experiences. Be present so that you can get the spiritual insights on what your next move is.
So, pay attention. Kind of just sit back and just be at ease with you and see who calls you that day and who doesn’t call you that day. The people who call you, those are the people who are vibing on your frequency, your current frequency.
So, start paying attention on the little evidences and the little moments and activities and events in your life that’s really juiced up with a lot of spiritual insight and the universe communicating with you and reflecting back to you various things to give you the remembrance of what it is you’re seeking to know – which is your truth, your divinity, your cosmic celebrity, your divine essence.
You will find that when you do this long enough … Sometimes this can take years, or sometimes this can take several decades. The idea is that you arrive there. The idea is that you be aware and that you’re enjoying the journey, and that you’re not beating yourself up, and that you’re gentle with yourself and compassionate and loving with yourself.
Because, you’re not trying to please or approve of anyone. You’re not trying to be approved or validated by anyone. Hell, you’re not even trying to have your own self-approval. You’re just literally more so trying to, or being in the flow, the intuitive flow and living life in a way that it’s aligned and true to you – right?
And, of course, you want to be self-approving, but what I’m saying is at the end of the day, you’re not going to be trying to be self-improving to the point where you’re beating yourself up or not being gentle with yourself or compassionate with yourself. Because above being self-approval, it’s about just being in an intuitive flow where it’s okay, it’s all right no matter what. Kind of like keeping things general in the sense of how you feel about yourself.
Just be general. If you’re feeling a certain type of way about yourself or something that you’re not achieving that you’re wanting to achieve so bad, just be easy. Just take it easy, just recalibrate. Just start with one positive thought at a time. Just know that nobody is giving you a score or, you know what I mean, giving you a grade on how you’re performing.
So, just be comforted to know that you don’t have to judge yourself, not even yourself. You don’t have to judge yourself. Once you get in that general emotional space to know that you don’t have nothing to prove, not even see yourself, you can then become more proving of yourself. You will then approve of yourself and validate yourself – be self-validated just because, right? Just because you exist. It’s really that simple, just because you exist.
You have beautiful energy to offer sort of world and to yourself and in the practicing of, you know, honing and cultivating your own energy and your own passions and the experiences that are meaningful to you, you will not only inspire yourself, you will also inspire others around you.
So, Athena Lucene and I came to this earth planetary construct as a galactic beacon of love and light, expanded consciousness here to support you on your spiritual growth and the nurturance and development of your sixth sense spiritual gifts. If you need additional support, or if you’d like more support, go to athenalucene.com, scroll down and click the phrase that resonates with you the most and you will receive a very special video that I’ve prepared for you.
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So, I think it’s a wonderful opportunity to be in a community of persons who have very similar gifts as you and have had as a consequence very similar experiences in your life journey. I think that does so much for the psychology and emotional health when there are persons who can, you know, relate to your journey, who can relate to the uniqueness of being spiritually gifted and having sixth sense abilities.
So, if you feel that this podcast can inspire and resonate with someone else, share it in the spirit of love. And as always, it’s my absolute joy to support you. I look forward to receiving your comments and of course, to responding.
That’s it for now. I’m Athena Lucene, abundant blessings and blissful moments.